Sunday Reading : Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche is born on 15th September 1977. She is a Nigerian Novelist and writer of short stories and non fiction.
● Her novels are :
● Shorts stories :
● Book length essay :
We should all be feminist( 2014 )
She is also an excellent speaker. Listening her is an amazing experience. There are three most popular talks of her.
1) The Danger of a single story
2) We should all be feminist
3) Talk on importance of truth in post truth Era.
She is a story teller. At the age of 4 she started reading. She reads British and American children books. So she is a early reader. She begin to write at age of 7.
1) The Danger of a single story :
In this video she talks about the danger of single story. How the single story of any country or person leads towards critical misunderstanding.
●The characters of her stories are white blue eyes. She wrote exactly the kinds of stories she was reading. Her characters were played in snow and talking about weather and ate apples. So this things despite the fact that she lived in Nigeria. They didn't have snow and they ate mangoes not apple. They never talked about weather. She read the books in which the characters were foreign so she become convinced that books by them in Nature had to have a foreign in them .
● Things changes when she discovered African books. It shift in her perception of literature. She realise that the people like her ( Nigerian ) also exist in the literature.
● Discovery of African writing saving her from having single story of books.
She also talked about her new house boy Fide. She listen from her mother that his family was very poor. But one day she went to his village to visit. His mother shows a beautiful basket made by his brother. She never think that anyone of them could make something. So it become impossible for her to see them as anything else but poor. So their poverty become single story for her.
● Later on she talked about her roomate that she got surprised to listen her very good English later on she asked her that where she had learned to speak English so well. So when she said from Nigeria at that time she didn't believed but later on she apologised for her behaviour. So that American girl had a single story of Africa. In this story there was no possibility of Africans being similar to her. No possibility of connection as human equality.
● single story of Africa comes from western literature as place of beautiful landscape, fighting senseless war , dying of poverty and AIDS , unable to speak for themselves and waiting to be saved by kind white foreigner. So these all considered as African authenticity in literature or work. She wrote her research work in this her professor told that her characters were like too much like him an educated middle class man , not striving. So there for it had not authentically African.
● single story created show a people one thing as only one thing , over and over again and that was they become.
● power structure of world like political and economical world create single stories.
● In stories it is important how they are told, who tells them , when they are told , how many stories are told , are they really dependent on power.
● " Power is ability not just to tell the story of another person but make it the definitive story of that person."
● single story creates stereotype the problem with that is not untrue but they were incomplete.
● The consequences of single story is it robs people of dignity. It makes our recognition of equally humanity difficult.
● It emphasis how we are different rather than how we are similar.
● Importance of stories :
It have been used to dispossessed. It can be also used to empowerment and humanise. Sometime it breaks the dignity of people but it has also power to repair that broken dignity.
2) We should all be feminist :
● Feminist word connected in negative sense of hate man.
● Childhood experience : she wanted to be class monitor but teacher denied and told her that monitor had to be boy not girl. So the the boy who had second highest score in test became monitor. But boy have no any interest in patrolling the class while she had full of ambition to be monitor. But because he was male so he became class monitor.
● she share an experience in which she and her male friend Lui going outside. She saw a man helping others in park their car. So she impressed by him and decided to gave him a tip. She gave her money which she had earn. He took that money and thanking Lui her male friend.
● person think that money comes from only male. Because most powerful position occupied by man
● Doing injustice with women paying her less money than men.
● We live vastly different world where there is no importance of physical strong person but importance of intelligence, creative and innovative person.
● planned about different world fair world. A world of happier men and women true to themselves.
● put the boys inside the cage to teach boy afraid of fear and weakness , teach to be true to themselves .
● we teach girls to compromise by giving up their job and desire , shrink themselves smaller than boy , afraid to be more successful than men , importance of marriage, give respect to relation and marriage , covering herself fully.
Because of these things girl feels shame and guilty to be born as female. So girl have to be grow up to be women.
● Problem with gender is it prescribes how we should be rather than recognise how we are.
● weight of gender expectations
● socialisation of gender roles
● Give importance to focus on ability rather than gender and focus on interest instead of gender.
● Virginity is more important for girls rather than boys.
●Caring child is responsibility of both man and woman.
● Female Should not be apologise to be female .
● Feminist is a person who believes in social , political and economical equality of the sexes.
● Feminist is a man or woman who says yes there is a problem with gender as it is today we must fixed it we do better.
3) Talk on importance of truth in post truth Era :
● Lie in politics consider as appropriate in America.
● Courage to embrace the truth
● Telling truth not because it always work out but you sleep well at night.
● There is nothing beautiful than to wake up everyday holding in your hand full measure of your integrity.
● Bending towards truth and to air on the side of truth.
● Not stop self to telling truth
● In politics telling truth will be courageous act.
● Never silence your self out of fear that the truth you speak might provoke.
● Listen to the other side at least the reasonable other side.
●Recognise those things get the way to telling truth like empty cleverness, morality bankrupt irony , desire to pleasure , tendency to confused.
● Learn to say don't know. Take courage to accept things you don't know.
● Be courageous accept that life is messy. Your life is not always perfectly match with your ideology.
● keep on trying. If it doesn't work out try something else.
● Importance of self doubt and self belief.